Belief Systems and Paradigms

Belief Systems and Paradigms

This main page about life belief systems and paradigms will allow you to focus on shifting your paradigm if you wish to, with instructions on how to change your internal scripts and dialogue.

Why would anyone want to change?  Most people don’t change unless there is a really good reason to.  Maybe a person is unhappy or sick and realizes that something’s gotta give.  Or, maybe life just gives you too much to handle and you start to consider that you’re not living the life you wanted.  Or, a whole load of circumstances piled up to force you to change…

Either way, life is change.  Did you ever notice that?  You are always older and hopefully, wiser…but why not willingly change into what you really wish to become, rather than going through life on default, just taking hits or dodging them?  I’ve heard people say, “it’s one thing after another,” when they are in default mode.  More and more of the SOS just keeps coming, because the focus is on problems, not solutions.

A lot of self-help gurus talk about changing your paradigms, and I especially love Dr. Wayne Dyer, who said, “when you change the things you look at, the things you look at change.”  This has profound meaning, because this one statement can immediately and immensely help anyone who wants to get on the right path for their life.  Just think about a person whose life is completely lackluster, and he just gets through the day–maybe he once had bigger dreams, but has deserted the idea of trying, and is so jaded that he can barely get through the day without a barrage of worries and fears about the future.  He has no hope and the only thing he focuses on is negativity–reliving the past, fear of future.

But then, somehow, he manages to realize that there is more to life than what he has been living! He has hope again…and then the things he looks at begin to change…and now he can see possibilities where he thought there were none.  He can now find time to do something he finds interesting, and when he does, he meets someone new.  A whole series of fun begins to unfold, until–WHACK!  He either realizes that it’s all temporary, so he just goes right back to being miserable, OR, he realizes it’s all temporary so he can keep up the positive momentum (and find good things to notice) until he feels better ALL the time.  If he can get over the “hump” so to speak, he’ll be golden.

This positive momentum is a beautiful process, where each person can really begin to find his or herself again…the focus shifts from negative thoughts and worries or lack, to creating the exact idea of what is really wanted, to allowing the best in the self to shine, and taking a risk, even if it’s a small risk each day, to be better than the day before.

I know which person I’d rather be right now, but believe me, I’ve been both!  I much prefer an attitude of abundance, which embraces all people where they are at, and realizes that all in life is good.  Life is a natural progression of all that I have become, and I love all of me.  The more I love and accept myself, the more good I draw to me.  I release all fears and limitations easily.  I do give more detailed information on HOW to do this in my self love report, and it’s free.

Shifting your paradigm doesn’t have to be difficult, it only requires some quiet reflection on each life area.  Your limiting thoughts can easily be dispelled and replaced by better and more true thoughts…empowering thoughts that will actually build your foundation of feeling strong for your future.  You are so important, so make sure you have built yourself on solid ground, that can’t be shaken.

Much love and many blessings!



Using Positive Affirmations with Subliminals

Whatcha been thinking about?  Are you using positive affirmations with subliminals yet?  If your inner dialogue or “script” sounds like chaotic banter, maybe you should consider this mega-charged combination for inner growth!  Affirmations allow us to program our own minds, while in a conscious state, while subliminals, especially those that use the alpha and theta brain waves, also tap into the unconscious beliefs.  So, changing both is needed for life improvements.  What you live and tell yourself all the time becomes your script, your “story”, or your unconscious belief system.  And, all of those can be changed if you want to!

First, I must say that using positive affirmations or subliminals will be a waste of time if you aren’t really focused on said growth, because what you believe about yourself in every aspect of your life is what you are attracting…for instance…

If you have a lot of confusion, frustration, anger, or distrust, you will find yourself realizing more and more of these feelings within you and all around you (which makes you a pessimist by the way). Yet, if you are an optimist, you will find that no matter what life throws at you, you continually find a way to realize that “when a door closes, a window opens.”  I have found that most people are somewhere in the middle, and so would like the chance to grow.  But how?

If you are the pessimist that realizes it, and also concludes that it’s time to make the change, then congratulations!  You are in for a wonderful ride, which will be a two steps forward one step back kind of proposition.  You will always be in control of your thoughts, actions, feelings, and behaviors.  Because you are finding out something that is a Universal Law, that only you control yourself, and the results you are looking at in your life are yours and yours alone.

Step 1:  Get out a notebook, and start to write down your thoughts on each of these topic as they come to you…Self image, family, friends, love, money, work, success, abundance, health. You may find that you have a lot of thoughts that are positive and some that are negative.  If you have positive thoughts, then leave it alone.  If it’s negative, think about how you can change it into a more positive and believable thought.

Example:  Under health, “I am overweight“, could be positively charged by saying, “I’ve lost weight before and I can do it again.”  Repeat for all limiting thoughts.

Step 2:  See what topics had the most negative or limiting beliefs, and vow that you will change them so that you can improve your self image.  Repeat this phrase, “I am too important to believe anything negative about myself, and I am getting better at noticing my good qualities every day.”

Step 3:  Choose a free subliminal from Youtube or the internet, and use the headphones or download it to your mp3, and listen to during the day or at night.  Reprogramming your mind using subliminals is a great way to put you in control of your own thoughts, and remind yourself of who you really were meant to be.  I use iGodMind on YouTube, and love the lite versions of the many subliminals offered by Ty Sumrall for free.  I saved a playlist and just put it on when I can throughout the day.

Step 4:  Keep up this new plan for at least 30 days, and switch subliminals after you have built up more confidence in each area.  Your results will likely come in quickly after you have really started using positive affirmations, eliminated the limiting beliefs, and using the subliminals over time.

Much love and blessings!

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